SECOND STAGE NEWS — Fall 2005

20th EDITION


Nellie McClung, A Canadian Heroine


The following is taken from the website: www.histori.ca. Nellie McClung was one of the “Famous Five” Canadian women who dedicated their lives to seeking equality for women.

Nellie McClung was a political activist. She was also a charmer with a gift for oratory and a delightful sense of humour. Her spirited leadership rallied others to the cause of women’s suffrage in Manitoba in the early 20th century.
When she was sixteen, Nellie began teaching at a rural school. In a long skirt and starched blouse, she would play football with the students at recess. Some parents objected — Football was not a ladies’ game — but Nellie finally won the parents over with tact and good sense.

“The real spirit of the suffrage movement is sympathy and interest in the other woman, and the desire to make the world a more homelike place to live in.”

Nellie McClung’s personal commitment to women’s rights became her political cause as well. She began to speak out for female suffrage and to write fiction. Her novel, Sowing Seeds in Danny, is a witty portrayal of a small western town. Published in 1908, it became a national best seller, the first of her many literary successes.
Marriage, five children, and a successful writing career did not stop Nellie McClung from campaigning for women’s rights. Her concern for less fortunate women grew out of deep religious beliefs and devotion to her family. She had seen firsthand the suffering of women and children caused by neglect, overwork, poverty and alcohol abuse. “The real spirit of the suffrage movement”, she once wrote, “is sympathy and interest in the other woman, and the desire to make the world a more homelike place to live in”.
In 1912, Manitoba women formed the Political Equality League to improve women’s working conditions. The League convinced Premier Roblin that factory conditions for women were indeed terrible, but in spite of McClung’s eloquence, the League did not convince him that female suffrage was the remedy for such abuses.
To rally public support, the League held a Mock Parliament on January 28, 1914. The subject of debate was whether or not men should have the vote. A male delegation presented its case for male suffrage, and “Premier” Nellie McClung rose to speak. She complimented the men on their splendid gentlemanly appearance, then she launched into her satiric attack: “Oh no, man is made for something higher and better than voting…Politics unsettles men, and unsettled men mean unsettled bills? broken furniture, broken vows, and ? divorce!”. The resounding success of the Mock Parliament lent energy and support to the League’s campaign. The 1915 election saw the defeat of Roblin’s Conservative government, and on January 29, 1916, Manitoba became the first Canadian province to give women the vote. Nellie McClung continued to fight for women’s suffrage in other provinces, and saw, slowly but steadily, tradition giving way to equality.

A United Way Agency



Women’s Program Benefits

Our 3rd Annual Golf Tournament held in July 2005 raised $10,000 for our Women.s Program. Ninety (90) players enjoyed 18 holes of golf on a fabulous
course followed by a delicious dinner, auction and raffle. Each player received a prize at the end of the evening. Revenues raised at this annual
event go towards our Women’s Program.

Watch for our 4th Annual Golf Tournament this July 2006!!!

5th Annual Women’s Night


Friday, February 3, 2006
St. Anne.s Centre
Doors Open 5:30 pm
Dinner and Mystery to Follow
Call Now to Reserve Table(s) / Ticket(s)
Advanced Sales Only

Volunteer Opportunities
Children’s Recreation Worker
Housekeeping, Children’s Program
Bingo Worker
Special Events Worker

We are actively recruiting for the above positions, please contact Chris for more information.

The cost to provide group counselling, individual counselling, support, advocacy and referals is $1650 per woman for her stay at Second Stage Housing.

You CAN Help
Us Raise $$$

Playhouse Supports
Second Stage

A new fundraising undertaking for Second Stage is developing. Volunteers are joining together to plan and build an OUTDOOR PLAYHOUSE to be raffled in late Spring ‘06. The playhouse will be completed in time to launch this fundraiser at the 2006 St. Thomas Home and Outdoor Show.
Volunteers are welcome to work behind the scenes, construct the actual building, and/or sell tickets/station booths.
Please contact Chris at Second Stage for more information.
637-2288



Abuse is a pattern of control that physically harms but also induces fear, prevents another from doing what they wish, or forces them to perform in ways they do not want to. Abuse includes physical, sexual, emotional and
ECONOMIC or FINANCIAL ABUSE
which can be recognized by the following examples:
  • Controlling how she spends money, where she works and what property she buys.
  • Spending all family income including her money or savings.
  • Using credit cards without her permission; destroying her credit rating.
  • Forcing her to turn over her benefit payments.
  • Undermining a woman’s opportunities to become economically independent (e.g. phoning a potential employer and telling the employer that the woman does not have any work experience and that she lied on her resume, even if she did not).
  • Threatening to report that a woman is “cheating” on her benefits, even if she is not and having her cut off, so she is dependent on the abuser.
  • Refusing to pay a woman who has left an abusive partner spousal or child support.
  • Not letting a woman have her own bank account.
  • Changing a lease agreement so that it is only the woman’s name on it and then not paying the rent so she becomes liable for it.
  • Calling and harassing a woman in her workplace to such an extent that she loses her job.
. . . . . . .Education Wife Assault
www.womanabuseprevention.com
2005-2006
BOARD OF DIRECTORS

President
Bev Wright

Vice-President
Marg Cheney

Secretary/Treasurer
Ron Somerville

Director
Jo Jones

Director
Gord Clark

Director
Irene Lodato

Director
Donna Lunn

In 2000, 55% of all female homicide victims in Canada were killed by either current or former spouses, partners or boyfriends.

Source: Statistics Canada, Homicide in Canada-2000


Testimonial….
As I sit here, I cannot find the adequate words to express my sincere gratitude for the service provided here at Second Stage Housing. Having a secure, safe, environment to live in, has made it easier to adjust to all the many changes and challenges that I have had to face in my life these past few months. The counsellors and services that are provided here at Second Stage are just awesome. They show us: understanding, compassion, clarity, trust, sympathy, and help us to work through our many, many emotions. They help us to understand that being abused is not okay and not a way of life.
By attending weekly group sessions our counsellors have covered several topics to deal with all the emotions of living in an abusive relationship and how it affects our daily lives. I have learned about the importance of living in a non-violent environment.
I have learned so much from being here and I can only hope and pray that this service at Second Stage Housing will remain available for the many women and children who are in such desperate need of it. I will be forever grateful for this service and I will never forget all they have done for me and my children. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Linda



Second Stage Financial Supporters
April 1, 2005 to October 1, 2005
St. Thomas-Elgin Second Stage Housing strives for accuracy in listing donors, however,
errors may occasionally occur. Please contact the office if omissions or errors are detected.
Benefactors
($1000 plus)

Kinsmen Club of St. Thomas
J. P. Bickell Foundation
St. Anne’s Council of Women

Patrons
($500 – $999.99)

Port Stanley Lioness
Talbot Trail Optimist Club

Stewards
($100 – $499.99)

Marshall Field
Joyce Ferguson
St. Anne’s Community Festival Board
Start to Stop Violence Campaign,
Zellers, St. Thomas
Kate Willison
Sybil Hagerman
Friends
($1- $99.99)

Iris Wellwood
Kim Hughson
Joseph Moser
Bill Webber
Phyllis Ballantyne
Liz Pickering
Agnes Bennett
Faye Edgar
Knights of Columbus
Central Star Chapter 57
Kathy Hagerman
Shirley Bennett
Harry & Doris Gordon
Quai du Vin Estate Winery